发信人: TigersHead (虎头), 信区: man
标 题: Re: 如果男生问:
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Aug 16 18:28:36 2006)
Let's make some assumption.
Scenario 1: YOU think he is asking the question he just asked. In another
word, number is just a number.
Then, you go for it. If you had 2 BFs before, tell him that. If you had 10
BFs before, tell him that, also.
Scenario 2: YOU think he is asking the question to get other questions, ie,
Then, you have 2 choices:
Choice A: You go play games. But remember, any game is like a bet. You will
have to obey the rules and accept the consequences. If you pretend to be a
princess to hunt for your pretended-to-be prince, don't expect him to be a
real prince in real life. Vice verse.
Choice B: You don't play games. That's it. If you want HIM to be the one who
loves you because of who you are. That's the way to do it.
Suggestion: You seem have some trust issue. The way you asked your question,
shows how you not trust people close to you.
However, trust is the basis and foundation of any relationship, including
romantic relationship. If you have a trust issue, I suggest you work on that
before you get involved into any serious relationship.
Just my 2 cents.
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